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TeasPlease wrote:Honestly, don't feel too pressured to read this- I'm pretty much just restating the obvious.

But this time I actually did my research, if that helps. ^^;


Yeah, yeah, it is no longer the 11th. But 'coming out' has never really been my thing, and I really don't think that's what I'm aiming for anyways.


I've decided I'm Bi-gender, as opposed to androgynous or gender queer.

I kind of switch between male/female sides of my personality.

And sometimes, between the grey shades of the two. (I can totally be some variation of 'both' at the same time.)


As far as sexuality goes.... Well, I'm still kind of undecided there. ._. I'm not gay. (I used to think I was, though) I'm not attracted to women. However, I'm not really attracted to men...

For me, attraction takes getting to know someone's personality. I sort of... Build up to it. (does that make me a terrible human being? ._.")

'Sex appeal' is an afterthought. It doesn't come right away. Porn actually doesn't affect me at all. I mean, other than feeling embarrassed for the idiots who make it.

And yeah, I've been in consistent heterosexual relationships, but... I don't know. My feels are complicated. ._."

I pretty much label myself as hetero, because I'm in a heterosexual relationship. P:

You could possibly say I'm asexual/heteroromantic, but that doesn't seem quite right either...

Which, whatever. I am what I am. Who cares if I can be 'defined'?

I mean, I'm never going to change the fact that I'm a female. Just like I'm going to stay faithful to being with either the opposite sex, or no one at all. Mainly due to religious reasons, and well, a few other things that factor in.

However, Jon and I will get married someday, so I don't see how this would be a problem. :eyes:

*cough*

Er, in other news, I confessed to my Mom about my alcoholism. No more booze for me, yay~ (some of you already know this)

Yeah, not as enthusiastic as I should be, I know.

ace-all-over-the-place wrote:

TeasPlease wrote:Honestly, don't feel too pressured to read this- I'm pretty much just restating the obvious.

But this time I actually did my research, if that helps. ^^;


Yeah, yeah, it is no longer the 11th. But 'coming out' has never really been my thing, and I really don't think that's what I'm aiming for anyways.


I've decided I'm Bi-gender, as opposed to androgynous or gender queer.

I kind of switch between male/female sides of my personality.

And sometimes, between the grey shades of the two. (I can totally be some variation of 'both' at the same time.)


As far as sexuality goes.... Well, I'm still kind of undecided there. ._. I'm not gay. (I used to think I was, though) I'm not attracted to women. However, I'm not really attracted to men...

For me, attraction takes getting to know someone's personality. I sort of... Build up to it. (does that make me a terrible human being? ._.")

'Sex appeal' is an afterthought. It doesn't come right away. Porn actually doesn't affect me at all. I mean, other than feeling embarrassed for the idiots who make it.

And yeah, I've been in consistent heterosexual relationships, but... I don't know. My feels are complicated. ._."

I pretty much label myself as hetero, because I'm in a heterosexual relationship. P:

You could possibly say I'm asexual/heteroromantic, but that doesn't seem quite right either...

Which, whatever. I am what I am. Who cares if I can be 'defined'?

I mean, I'm never going to change the fact that I'm a female. Just like I'm going to stay faithful to being with either the opposite sex, or no one at all. Mainly due to religious reasons, and well, a few other things that factor in.

However, Jon and I will get married someday, so I don't see how this would be a problem. :eyes:

*cough*

Er, in other news, I confessed to my Mom about my alcoholism. No more booze for me, yay~ (some of you already know this)

Yeah, not as enthusiastic as I should be, I know.

I have a quote for this exact post.

"But what's really important is that we trust ourselves, and we stand ourselves, and we love and respect ourselves and we grant that same understanding to the people around us. Because when the world becomes one of infinite continuums and those false dichotomies break down and those two shiny boxes break apart into seven billion shiny boxes, it's actually pretty beautiful."
-Hank Green on all sexualities

I love Hank Green.

But anyway.

Bee is an awesome nickname, and I will refer to it for you from here on out. c: Personally, I don't care or mind who you're attracted to! Because you're just you, and you're wonderful, so why should a preference dictate how I treat you?

Personally, I have some things I need to air out of my own closet too. Closets are for clothes. (Expect an oncoming post, but the point being I can relate to you well - I think I told you already.)

You're still our Bee. You haven't changed. You've just found things out about yourself. :3

Raptorguy14 wrote:Alright, Bee it is.

Love you, Bee~ <33

TeasPlease wrote:

ace-all-over-the-place wrote:

TeasPlease wrote:Honestly, don't feel too pressured to read this- I'm pretty much just restating the obvious.

But this time I actually did my research, if that helps. ^^;


Yeah, yeah, it is no longer the 11th. But 'coming out' has never really been my thing, and I really don't think that's what I'm aiming for anyways.


I've decided I'm Bi-gender, as opposed to androgynous or gender queer.

I kind of switch between male/female sides of my personality.

And sometimes, between the grey shades of the two. (I can totally be some variation of 'both' at the same time.)


As far as sexuality goes.... Well, I'm still kind of undecided there. ._. I'm not gay. (I used to think I was, though) I'm not attracted to women. However, I'm not really attracted to men...

For me, attraction takes getting to know someone's personality. I sort of... Build up to it. (does that make me a terrible human being? ._.")

'Sex appeal' is an afterthought. It doesn't come right away. Porn actually doesn't affect me at all. I mean, other than feeling embarrassed for the idiots who make it.

And yeah, I've been in consistent heterosexual relationships, but... I don't know. My feels are complicated. ._."

I pretty much label myself as hetero, because I'm in a heterosexual relationship. P:

You could possibly say I'm asexual/heteroromantic, but that doesn't seem quite right either...

Which, whatever. I am what I am. Who cares if I can be 'defined'?

I mean, I'm never going to change the fact that I'm a female. Just like I'm going to stay faithful to being with either the opposite sex, or no one at all. Mainly due to religious reasons, and well, a few other things that factor in.

However, Jon and I will get married someday, so I don't see how this would be a problem. :eyes:

*cough*

Er, in other news, I confessed to my Mom about my alcoholism. No more booze for me, yay~ (some of you already know this)

Yeah, not as enthusiastic as I should be, I know.

I have a quote for this exact post.

"But what's really important is that we trust ourselves, and we stand ourselves, and we love and respect ourselves and we grant that same understanding to the people around us. Because when the world becomes one of infinite continuums and those false dichotomies break down and those two shiny boxes break apart into seven billion shiny boxes, it's actually pretty beautiful."
-Hank Green on all sexualities

I love Hank Green.

But anyway.

Bee is an awesome nickname, and I will refer to it for you from here on out. c: Personally, I don't care or mind who you're attracted to! Because you're just you, and you're wonderful, so why should a preference dictate how I treat you?

Personally, I have some things I need to air out of my own closet too. Closets are for clothes. (Expect an oncoming post, but the point being I can relate to you well - I think I told you already.)

You're still our Bee. You haven't changed. You've just found things out about yourself. :3

That's a good quote. :'3

TTuTT No one could ask for a better friend, Andi. Seriously.

Ok. :3

^^

TeasPlease wrote:

Raptorguy14 wrote:Alright, Bee it is.

Love you, Bee~ <33

Love you too ~ <33 X3

ace-all-over-the-place wrote:

TeasPlease wrote:

ace-all-over-the-place wrote:

TeasPlease wrote:Honestly, don't feel too pressured to read this- I'm pretty much just restating the obvious.

But this time I actually did my research, if that helps. ^^;


Yeah, yeah, it is no longer the 11th. But 'coming out' has never really been my thing, and I really don't think that's what I'm aiming for anyways.


I've decided I'm Bi-gender, as opposed to androgynous or gender queer.

I kind of switch between male/female sides of my personality.

And sometimes, between the grey shades of the two. (I can totally be some variation of 'both' at the same time.)


As far as sexuality goes.... Well, I'm still kind of undecided there. ._. I'm not gay. (I used to think I was, though) I'm not attracted to women. However, I'm not really attracted to men...

For me, attraction takes getting to know someone's personality. I sort of... Build up to it. (does that make me a terrible human being? ._.")

'Sex appeal' is an afterthought. It doesn't come right away. Porn actually doesn't affect me at all. I mean, other than feeling embarrassed for the idiots who make it.

And yeah, I've been in consistent heterosexual relationships, but... I don't know. My feels are complicated. ._."

I pretty much label myself as hetero, because I'm in a heterosexual relationship. P:

You could possibly say I'm asexual/heteroromantic, but that doesn't seem quite right either...

Which, whatever. I am what I am. Who cares if I can be 'defined'?

I mean, I'm never going to change the fact that I'm a female. Just like I'm going to stay faithful to being with either the opposite sex, or no one at all. Mainly due to religious reasons, and well, a few other things that factor in.

However, Jon and I will get married someday, so I don't see how this would be a problem. :eyes:

*cough*

Er, in other news, I confessed to my Mom about my alcoholism. No more booze for me, yay~ (some of you already know this)

Yeah, not as enthusiastic as I should be, I know.

I have a quote for this exact post.

"But what's really important is that we trust ourselves, and we stand ourselves, and we love and respect ourselves and we grant that same understanding to the people around us. Because when the world becomes one of infinite continuums and those false dichotomies break down and those two shiny boxes break apart into seven billion shiny boxes, it's actually pretty beautiful."
-Hank Green on all sexualities

I love Hank Green.

But anyway.

Bee is an awesome nickname, and I will refer to it for you from here on out. c: Personally, I don't care or mind who you're attracted to! Because you're just you, and you're wonderful, so why should a preference dictate how I treat you?

Personally, I have some things I need to air out of my own closet too. Closets are for clothes. (Expect an oncoming post, but the point being I can relate to you well - I think I told you already.)

You're still our Bee. You haven't changed. You've just found things out about yourself. :3

That's a good quote. :'3

TTuTT No one could ask for a better friend, Andi. Seriously.

Ok. :3

^^

It's my new favorite. o3o

I just want you to be happy and welcomed. c:

>w<

EatThePocky wrote:I know I can't be as helpful as Ace or Jon...but I'll try my best. Really, I will ;w;
No matter how damn cheesy this sounds...you'll find yourself in the future. You'll discover who you are, and when you do, be proud of it. Don't let other people degrade you or look down on you.
I know this kind of thing can be frustrating...Trust me, I know. But everything will clear up in due time, and it always becomes clear at the right time. It's like Gandalf. It's never late, nor is it early. It's always on time
Just wait a little longer...Things will start making sense in the future. I promise ;u;

EatThePocky wrote:It's like Gandalf. It's never late, nor is it early. It's always on time